Mesa's Hill a leader in more ways than one

Daily Pilot High School Athlete of the Week

Senior defender, who shined in the Battle for the Bell, has worked hard to improve her game.

January 25, 2013|By Matt Szabo
  • Costa Mesa High senior girls' water polo player Aubry Hill is the Daily Pilot High School Athlete of the Week.
Costa Mesa High senior girls' water polo player… (KEVIN CHANG, Daily…)

Aubry Hill is a strong player for the Costa Mesa High girls' water polo team, both literally and figuratively.

The senior defender strives to get better. She has improved her leg strength, her shot, basically her whole game.

Hill started playing club water polo and she enjoys swimming, so she's in the pool a ton. She's always loved the water, but when she was a toddler it nearly cost Hill her life.

She jumped in a pool at her foster parents' home without knowing how to swim.

"I ended up dying," Hill said. "I was dead, and then they brought me back to life."

She said she occasionally still has nightmares about drowning. Real life wasn't so great for Hill in her youngest years either.

She doesn't know her birth parents. She hasn't been with them since she was a year old. It was then that Aubry, her older brother, Dirk, and her younger sister, Kaitlyn, were placed in a foster home, where they stayed for more than two years.


Aubry has not gone looking for her birth parents. It's natural for her to call Pat and Dirk Hill mom and dad.

"We were taken away at a very young age," Aubry Hill said. "To me, being adopted is not that big of a deal. I don't know my parents, and I don't really remember them at all. I kind of like to block out my childhood memories. I don't really have many childhood memories that I want to keep, so I try to kind of force them away.

"Being adopted, it's definitely made me a better person. I realize that I can't take stuff for granted, because it can be taken away from you at any time. My parents were druggies and alcoholics. If we were still living under them, I don't know where I would be, or if I'd even be alive."

Pat and Dirk Hill gave the siblings a good life. Pat said they took them home on Sept. 4, 1999. Two days later, they celebrated Aubry's fourth birthday. When Aubry was in second grade, the family moved to Costa Mesa.

"We've let them know little by little what they needed to know," Pat Hill said. "We've let them know they were adopted the whole time. We didn't hide anything."

You can't hide Aubry's Hill's relentless work in the pool either. Now she and her sister are shining for Coach Tim Postiff's Mustangs (14-8), who sit at a strong second place in the Orange Coast League.

Kaitlyn, a junior, is a two-year starter in goal. Aubry, a co-captain with senior Kellie Thorsness, is an obvious leader as well.

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