Participation in a game of violent collisions wreaks havoc on every joint in the body. The specter of concussion is ever present. Every Sunday I was sure that medical school rather than law school would have been better preparation to really safeguard my clients' welfare.
A Physicians Desk Reference sat at home or accompanied me on the road for days that seemed like episodes of ER. Seeing the long-term impact on players health can be frightening. But I still accepted my sons' decision to play because of the multitude of life lessons and character building that the game of football imparts.
No coach has a more critical role to play than a high school football coach. His players are adolescent boys who are in the midst of a confusing time of life. Their hormones and emotions are running high and they are in the middle of episodic growth spurts.
They need to be taught fundamental football techniques. And, they also need to have fundamental character traits stimulated. They are student-athletes who are taking enormous amounts of time away from studies to compete.
A high school coach can be a shaper, or hindrance to the development of valuable life skills. Pro players rue the cold and impersonal nature of professional football and often remember the warmth and camaraderie with coaches and teammates at the high school level as their happiest time in sports.
Football is a team sport that requires coordination of roles and a dependence on the performance of others.
Under the pressure of bodies flying around a field, a rapport, trust and deep relationships can be developed.
Knowing that another player "has your back" builds friendships through shared experience, interdependence and focus on a group goal.