Yet my hope is that when the chatter among your friends ensues, you will see that beneath the surface of the bumper sticker proudly adorned on their cars was a decision that did not come lightly.
While you analyze and make judgments about a student's decisions to remain close to home or study out of state, I picture these young adults conquering some of their biggest fears in the Big Apple, Windy City or the country music capital.
With my clients, there is definitely a personal story behind each final decision our seniors made. There was deliberate thought and an overriding emphasis on finding the right fit. This year, a college's student population of 5,000 felt too small to some, too big to others and just right for many. The bustle of urban life appealed to most, and the solitude of nature beckoned a few. Most will enter college with an undeclared major and a desire to reinvent, rediscover and not repeat some of the mistakes they made in high school.
I picture some of them painting their bodies in their new school colors for Pac-12 football games and others not caring a bit about intercollegiate sports, making the conscious choice to immerse themselves in the arts instead. Films will be made, businesses invented, social issues argued. Countries will be visited, Ancient Greek will be decoded, organic chemistry conquered. Majors will be changed, roommate challenges overcome pounds of weight accumulated.
Some will reunite with a sibling who left before them, and others will feel homesick, dealing with the first time living away from home, away from everything they've come to love. High school friendships may grow, change or even end.
Faith in religion might be challenged and beliefs misunderstood. Perspectives will be broadened. Truths with be tested.