"Who said I wanted to be a lawyer?" she asked.
The same address sent her an invitation to the National Leadership Summit, Ambassadors Abroad, and a catalog listing 14 other "special" programs. After reviewing the registration forms, we learned the costs of these programs ranged in price from $1,500 to more than $5,000 for the programs abroad.
"It says I was selected. Someone nominated me and I won."
It pained me to tell her that one of two things happened: She checked the box on the PSAT or SAT requesting materials from colleges (and any other organization that deals with college-bound students) or a teacher with good intentions nominated her for one of these programs after receiving a packet in the mail requesting her participation in nominating students for the honor.
I must admit that 10 years ago, as an English teacher, I fell for it, nominating my favorite students for a program in Washington, D.C., that would provide significant leadership opportunities.
The bold print on the envelopes will tempt you with statements like: "Do you want to change the world…Serve your community…Join young leaders from around the world…be more competitive for college admission?"
And the Congressional Student Leadership Conference, the National Honors Convocation, the Presidential Youth Leadership Conference, and the National You are the Best at Everything Symposium might sound really prestigious. But, are these experiences really valuable when applying to college?
The No. 1 rule when it comes to items that arrive in the mail is to toss anything with a hefty price tag, unless it is an experience you feel your child simply cannot live without.
Ask yourself this question, "Can my child be exposed to a similar experience and learn comparable skills in a more authentic and cost-free way?"