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Feats of fathers

For this annual Daily Pilot feature, readers have sent in letters to remind the dads in Newport-Mesa how much they’re appreciated.

June 22, 2009

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Dear Dad,

You’ve been gone more than 10 years now, but your influence is felt daily. You were a father who preferred working and making money rather than doing backyard barbecues and camping trips, but there’s one adventure you took my friends and me on that would rival any “hiking dad’s” expedition: a six-day, 120 mile walk from Newport Beach to Palm Springs.

It was Easter Week of 1968 when you invited me, a freshman at Corona del Mar High School, along with three of my friends to hike from our Eastbluff home to the desert resort.

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This was urban hiking, walking on sidewalks and along the sides of roads backpack-free and in regular clothes. You were a 53-year-old retiree wearing seersucker pants, saddle shoes and a Panama hat. As we checked into that City of Orange motel after the first day’s exhausting trek, our day came to a jarring end as the hotel manager asked us if we had heard the news that day — that Martin Luther King Jr. had been shot and killed.

We had not, and you had to explain to us 14-year-old boys how something like this could happen again, just 4 ½ years after President Kennedy’s assasination. (Two months later you would pull me out of bed at 11:30 p.m. to watch the news of Robert Kennedy’s slaying. “This is history,” you said, “I want you to see this.”).

The next morning most of us, especially you, had foot blisters, but that day we continued on along the old Santa Ana Canyon Road, now Highway 91, into Corona.

After another overnight stop in Riverside, we had the misfortune, in those pre-GPS and MapQuest days, to get lost. We ended up spending the night in a roadside ditch on Jackrabbit Trail, near present-day Moreno Valley. We were cold and hungry, but you made it fun telling us we were living the life of “hobos,” sleeping by a campfire of newspapers and trash in our Pacific Trail wind breakers and Sperry Topsiders.

The next morning, as we limped into Beaumont, we certainly appreciated the up-to-now taken-for-granted roof over our head, hot shower and warm meal. Whenever I’m in bed now and I hear rain on our roof or wind through the trees, I’m thankful for my modest home that provides me shelter.

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