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Rhoades Less Traveled:

Shortfall doesn't merit suit

March 19, 2009|By BRADY RHOADES

Teenagers can be savage to one another.

Reminiscing about my high school days many years ago, I find myself focusing on those students who suffered abuse at the hands of their peers. At that age, everyone is concerned about coming off as cool or, at the very least, normal. Consequently, those who are deemed uncool or abnormal suffer the consequences.

There was Tom, who was physically awkward and intellectually slow. He also couldn’t swim, and when our P.E. class went for a dip it was not uncommon for him to be surrounded, grabbed, dunked and dragged to the deep end. I also recall seeing him shoved into the mud one rainy day. And the verbal taunts were a constant.

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There was John, who happened to use a wheelchair and had meager control of his motor skills.

Only later did I learn that he was brilliant, despite his condition.

No one reached out to help him. Many derided him and pantomimed — caricatured is closer to the mark — his movements and mannerisms.

I wonder what became of Tom and John and so many others who faced similar challenges and were ridiculed for them. I hope the unrelenting abuse they were subjected to didn’t scar them too deeply or hamper them psychologically.

Surely, there were gay and lesbian students in our midst. But back in the early 1980s, none of them even thought of going public with their sexual orientation, which made it a non-issue on campus.

Times have changed.

The ACLU this week sued the Newport-Mesa Unified School District and Corona del Mar High School, claiming that “homophobic slurs are routinely used with impunity” and students were harassed and called names for voicing opposition to Proposition 8, California’s anti-gay marriage ballot.

The suit centers on a plaintiff who, to protect her, goes by the name “Mary” in legal circles.

The lawsuit claims three male students posted a video on the social network site Facebook allegedly discussing raping Mary in the back of a pickup truck and killing her.

The lawsuit comes on the heels of a controversy surrounding the school play “Rent.” Drama teacher Ron Martin claimed that Principal Fal Asrani canceled the production over portrayals of homosexuality.

So then, what exactly is the school’s, and district’s, obligation?

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