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Booming with love

Book gives insight to baby boomers on how to be grandparents. All you need is love, says author.

December 16, 2007|By Sue Thoensen

When Pat Burns became a grandmother at the ripe old age of 43, she was a little “shaken” and somewhat “rattled.”

Just for a minute.

It didn’t take long for the optimistic, music-loving baby boomer to decide to “roll” with it.

Burns was in the delivery room with her 18-year-old daughter when grandson Dylan was born. She described seeing the baby for the first time as “love at first sight” and knew instantly she would make sure she had a solid connection with her grandson no matter what she was doing.

That could have been easier said than done.

What Burns was doing at the time was working full-time, traveling all over the world on her job and enjoying the freedom that went hand-in-hand with being a single, successful woman.

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She had no idea how the rock ‘n’ rollin’ baby boomer she perceived herself to be would be able to transition into what seemed a sedate grandparents’ existence.  

“Grandparents Rock, The Grandparenting Guide For the Rock-N-Roll Generation,” is the book Burns penned 15 years later. It recently was named a finalist in the Parenting/Family category in the National Best Books 2007 Awards for USABookNews.com.

The book is the inspirational tale of her experience as a grandparenting member of the generation she said “never expected to age.”

As a new grandmother, Burns had gone looking for books that would offer fun ways to get involved with her grandchildren. Everything she picked up was dated, with suggestions that presumed the reader was in the middle of nowhere and had nothing to do.

Burns played with Dylan, and made stuff up as she went along, always doing what came naturally for her. Sometimes that included building forts with broccoli, gelatin squares and ice cream cones for little green Army men on a table in the middle of a restaurant.

Every time she had an idea, she wrote it down and filed it away.

Each chapter in Burns’ book is named after a classic rock ‘n’ roll hit and how it applied to her life at that time, which is why Chapter 1 was aptly titled, “Shake, Rattle and Roll.”

Most of the baby boomers becoming grandparents today are in their 50s or approaching 60, Burns said, but neither she nor the people she interviewed for her book have any intention of slowing down.

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